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Maturity... understanding...

think ther will be no more talkin abt me n ST... itz gettin stale... everyday itz all the same on hw i tried nt to think of him n hw cranky i gt when i saw the nickname of the qing mei zhu ma on msn...


smbody told me tat he is childish and immature... his immaturity had caused pain to himself and others... he said tat he dun understand gal well...


bt in actual fact... hw many of us in this world can understand urself fully..? and in tat case, hw are u able to understand others at the same time... in addition, hw are we goin to understand someone who all the while did not open up to you...? understandin smbody haf to be mutual ie. tat person himself wanted to b understood... if u r tryin to understand sm1 who refuse to open up himself/herself to you, hw r u goin to understand them... tatz no way to do it unless u noe mind reading... n who haf such supernatural power anyway....


although all ppl can b categorise in2 gal or guy... bt each individual is still unique... understanding has gt nth to do wif maturity... maturity oni come in when u wanna handle ur understanding or ur non understanding... chim rite...


this is an ongoing process without fail... n hw many can actually survive thru this process without gettin hurt, betrayed, paranoid, hopeless, confused...? this is ware maturity come in... hw do u handle ur hurt, the betrayal u face, the paranoid u seen, the hopeless n confusions tat u feel...? it could b part of the understanding process...


a childish/immature person could noe wat is going on, he/she can understand sm1 or an issue very well... bt noe-in doesnt mean tat u can handle it... it come with experience... so mature person could oso misunderstood or dun even noe wat is going on... jz tat wif experience, they can handle the situation oni...


come to think of it... have i ever really understand ST... have he actually willin to open up himself for me to understand him... i realised tat wat i noe abt him is really on the surface... i guess is any1 who noe him for smtimes will noe oso... he nvr share the inner feelings n even if he share, most prob nt to me oso... so am i immature becos i dun understand wat guyz are thinkin..?? i will oni say tat i am immature becos i refuse to handle things the way tat itz shd be handle eventhough i noe tat i will b capable of handlin it the way it shd b if i wan...


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